New Relationship Talk

Women are a mystery, men are a mystery, love is a mystery, and life is also a mystery. Love makes people reveal their true feelings. So, how can one honestly reveal their true emotions in love? From the forms, morals, and philosophy of love to its techniques, Yukio Mishima humorously expounds! Also includes "The Aesthetics of Ending" and "Spiritual Talk to Young Samurai." What kind of love do you dream of? Or what kind of love are you currently experiencing? Yukio Mishima perfectly captured the essence of Japanese love: "For the Japanese, love is a positive, instinctual emotion." No matter how much one pretends on the surface, the powerful and latent truth of the heart's throbbing will eventually be discovered! Yukio Mishima explains this to us. The Fundamental Law of Love When in love, effectively eliciting the other person's sympathy is the fundamental law. Firstly, the other person must feel the charm you exude; when charm is mixed with sympathy, it holds the value of love. Charm mixed with sympathy, just like adding a pinch of salt makes red bean soup sweeter, can better attract the opposite sex. The Truth vs. Lies in Love In love, human honesty and sincerity are hard to generalize. What I want to say is that in love, so-called honesty should be honesty towards the other person. If the other person believes you are a serious and innocent man, then do not let her see your ugly side; this is honesty. To keep the other person believing that you are a serious and innocent man may just be honesty towards her! Is destroying the other person's illusions in love considered honesty? That is a big question. Therefore, demanding sincerity from each other, but never demanding that self-righteous honesty. Love is not a game, but an adult's behavior, so let the lies between people serve the most beautiful purpose! I believe that so-called lies hold the most honest meaning in love. Love and Jealousy The stronger human love is, the stronger the possessiveness, and thus it becomes entangled with jealousy. However, if you believe that jealousy is love, and that love cannot exist without jealousy, it's better to discard such an antiquated notion sooner rather than later! While I respect passion, I also respect reason. Because beautiful love ultimately requires a compromise between passion and reason; one cannot simply be full of passion and assume they are right, accusing the other of being wrong. The most terrifying aspect of jealousy is undoubtedly losing self-control, only blaming the other person, and after being discovered, trying to correct or scold the other person's flaws using other methods. Techniques of Courtship A person who says they want to kiss out loud is a fool. Anyway, in matters of love, some "event" always needs to happen. No matter how much one plans, at that moment, the other person must feel that it was completely accidental; that is the secret. In other words, it must be natural. When anyone first kisses, the man always has a naive misconception of intending to kiss, becoming so tense and rigid, like a robot, due to his own plan, that he fails. As one's technique gradually improves, one can achieve the desired natural and accidental effects, and these effects will become perfect.

出版日期/Publication Date：December 1, 2012
出版社/Publisher：大牌出版
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页数/Page: 316